Upgrading to a Larger Car Seat

One of the perils of being tall parents — I’m 5’9″ and Joe is 6’2″ — is that we have ourselves one very, very tall baby. When we got the exact measurement at her 6-month checkup, we were a little startled to realize that she was only half an inch away from outgrowing her infant car seat, which was rated for a maximum height of 30 inches. Not that we hadn’t noticed it was getting a little tight:

A baby in a carrier car seat that is getting to be too small.

Lillian in her old car seat, right before we left to go shopping for a new one.

I think the above photo really illustrates how her legs were already overlapping the edge of it, and how her head was nearly reaching the top, but I guess it took the doctor’s measurement to really give us the wake-up call that it was time to upgrade.

So last weekend, we headed out to Babies R Us in search of a bigger car seat. We knew that the replacement wouldn’t be the carrying kind, which is just as well — at almost 20 pounds, using a car seat as a baby carrier was getting to be a little impractical anyway. But aside from that, we didn’t really have an exact idea which brand or model we were looking for.

I think I’ve written before about the multitude of baby products available and how overwhelming it can feel while trying to sift through them all, and car seats are certainly no exception. The Babies R Us location by our house has no less than three aisles of car seats, ranging from the small rear-facing kind for newborns all the way up to booster seats for older kids.

An aisle of car seats in a Babies R Us store.

One section of car seats at Babies R Us.

So our strategy was to stumble into the store on a Sunday afternoon, look at the various car seats in person, compare prices, and read online reviews of any we liked right there thanks to the magic of smartphones. Once in the store, we were drawn to the S1 by Safety 1st Alpha Elite 65 Convertible Car Seat, since it offered functionality as a rear-facing car seat, a forward-facing car seat, and a booster seat for kids up to 100 pounds. It wasn’t the cheapest car seat in the store, but it seemed like it would be nice to pick one that wouldn’t just have to be replaced again in another six months.

This particular model of car seat came in two colors: black and pink. I thought the black one had kind of a boyish look, while the flowery pink one was obviously designed for a baby girl:

Flowery pink car seat in the store.

The pink version (left) and the black version (cut off on the right).

I’ll admit it, I thought the pink one was really cute. And while the black one would be easier to re-use for any future child(ren) regardless of gender, I have my doubts about whether we can realistically expect any baby product to last that long. What with the recalls and the planned expiration, not to mention all the trials and tribulations a baby, toddler, or child will naturally put it through.

Anyway, we read the reviews in the store, and it had good ratings — the biggest customer complaint seemed to be that it was difficult to install — so we went ahead and got it. And… oh man, those reviewers weren’t kidding. The instructions were garbage, and we spent over two hours struggling to get this thing in the car, during which time Joe repeatedly suggested that we just return it and get a different one.

Most frustrating, the car seat is supposed to be reclined at a certain angle for smaller babies, except in some vehicles it can’t reach that angle unless you roll up some towels and cram them underneath. (It actually directs you to do this in the manual, so I guess it must be safe.) In our case it took four layers of towels, carefully rolled into a log, to do the trick. But the end result was every bit as solid and stable as you’d expect, and Lillian seems to approve of how it turned out:

A baby girl in a rear-facing car seat.

Lillian enjoying the new car seat.

The padding in the car seat is just the right size and shape for her to lean her head against, and she settled in and took a really long nap the first time we went out shopping. So, it seems like it should be good and comfy whenever it comes time to take our next road trip!

The Brick Work and Tuckpointing, Before and After

Well, I originally intended today’s post to be about those landscaping improvements I mentioned briefly at the end of the six month baby update… But as I was looking at the before and after photos, I realized just how big and obvious-looking a change had happened to the outside of our house, and yet had somehow never made it to the blog. So to get caught up, let’s turn the time machine back to last year, before we had the tuckpointing done.

Three views of worn, cracked and crumbling bricks in need of maintenance.

Views of the bricks on the front of the house (left), side of the house (upper right) and above the basement window (bottom right). Taken during the home inspection.

Our house has two different kinds of brick — the fancy red, which is on the front of the house, and the drab dull brown, which is on the sides and back of the house. (This seems to be pretty common among Chicago bungalows, which are typically placed close enough together that the sides aren’t easily visible from the street.) The photos above show what the brick on various parts of the house looked like before we moved in, complete with worn-out mortar, damaged bricks, and cracks so wide that the bricks looked like they would fall out. All in all, it wasn’t pretty.

Especially due to the cracks, we considered the brick work one of the top maintenance priorities when we bought the house. It wasn’t bad enough yet to be irreparable, or to cause any serious structural damage, but we knew that the longer we waited the worse it would get. (Granted, this was before the electrical problems came up, and in retrospect the wiring was probably a bigger priority, but you know what they say about hindsight.)

So we got started on the tuckpointing last fall. (And by “we,” I mean we brought in a contractor to do it — this sort of thing goes way too far beyond our skill level to be a DIY project.) And even though it seems like one of those “boring” things that wouldn’t make for very interesting before and after photos, in our case the result was pretty dramatic.

A view of a red brick house before and after repointing the brick.

Bricks on the front of our house before the tuckpointing (left) and after the tuckpointing (right).

The above photos show a section of the front of the house before and after the tuckpointing — not super different when looking at it from a distance, but definitely noticeable. They used the same red mortar that the house originally had, although it was deeper in the cracks and generally less obvious prior to the tuckpointing.

But moving on to the more serious issues, some of the bricks in the worst shape were in the arch above our basement window. The mortar was completely cracked around them, and the bricks were actually starting to come loose, although thankfully it hadn’t gotten so bad that it couldn’t be fixed:

The bricks above our basement window before repair (top) and after (bottom).

The end result is so smooth and seamless that it’s hard to tell anything was ever amiss, especially considering how crooked and scary-looking it had gotten.

But I think one of the most dramatic changes took place along the side of the house, where the chimney extends from the wall a little. When we bought the house, this section was in particularly bad shape, and it had gotten to the point that the bricks were actually starting to erode away in places. As the photos below demonstrate, some of the ones toward the top had to be replaced entirely:

The brick exterior of a house before and after repointing and repair work.

The chimney before the tuckpointing (left) and after (right).

The funny thing is, despite walking past this section of wall every day (it’s right by our front door) I don’t think I really noticed how big a change had happened here until I looked at these two photos side by side. Compared to the crumbling “before” shot, the wall in the “after” picture looks smooth and solid and practically as good as new.

So that’s the belated story of another big maintenance project we’ve tackled on the house, and hopefully the last one I’ll have occasion to write about on this blog for a while, especially considering that we just had the whole-house rewiring done. And I’ve gotta say, it’s a nice feeling knowing that the house (probably) won’t fall down or burn down anytime soon thanks to these two improvements!

The 6-Month Baby Update

A little over a week ago, Lillian sailed past her six-month birthday, and since she had her routine six-month checkup on Tuesday, it seems like a baby update is in order! So to start it off, here is the next photo in her photo series with the stuffed bunny:

Lillian's six month baby photo with the stuffed bunny.

Gone are the days when you could just prop up the bunny next to her and shoot away — now she wants to grab it and play with it and stuff it in her mouth, as this latest photo demonstrates. For the background, I just used the new play mat we got recently, which is made up of colorful interlocking squares covered in letters and numbers.

As for the technical stuff, her latest stats are 19 lbs 13 oz and 29.5 inches. Aside from the mind-blowing reality that she’s more than doubled in weight since she was born (wow!) this is also significant because her car seat is rated for up to 30 lbs and up to 30 inches — and while she’s nowhere near the limit for weight, she’s on the brink of outgrowing it height-wise. So we’ll probably try to start shopping for a bigger one this weekend.

In the 5-month baby update, I posted a video showing how much progress she was making pushing up onto her hands and the possible precursors to crawling, but she hasn’t quite figured out the mechanics of that just yet. She can sit up pretty much unassisted though, even if she is still a bit wobbly at times, and if you lay her on her back she can spin around in a circle so that her feet point in the opposite direction.

We’ve also been expanding her diet. She’s up to two solid meals per day instead of just the one we were doing at first, and we’ve been adding more pureed fruit and veggie based baby foods instead of just the oatmeal. But the best part is seeing her develop preferences — growing into an opinionated little person with actual likes and dislikes. I made the following table to illustrate Lily’s current food tastes:

Likes:

• Apples.

• Pears. (Goes crazy for pears.)

Dislikes:

• Oatmeal mixed with fruit flavors.

• Banana. (And things mixed with banana.)

It’s a pity that she’s not that interested in banana, since it seems like at least half of the pre-made store-bought baby foods include it in some form. But on the plus side, we haven’t observed any food allergies or intolerances of any kind yet, aside from “I don’t care for this banana and refuse to open my mouth.”

Moving on: I think the thing I’ve been most excited about over the last week or so is that she’s started making sounds that sound suspiciously like “mama.” It’s hard to say whether this is just a coincidence, since babies make lots of random babbling noises at this age, or whether she’s consciously trying to repeat after all the times I’ve said, “Can you say mama? M-m-m-m-ma-ma?” But either way, it’s impossible not to be ridiculously tickled pink every time I hear it.

She was saying it so much yesterday that I actually got out the camera to try to record it… only then she got quiet and would only glance suspiciously at the camera while playing with her feet. I ended up with a bunch of video clips that look like this:

Maybe this is a sign that I should shoot more video so she won’t be so distracted by the camera. Although she doesn’t seem to even notice my other camera — the huge DSLR that only shoots still pictures. Probably because I’ve had it glued to my face from the minute she was born, haha.

With the weather turning nicer, we’ve had some great opportunities to go do stuff in the great outdoors. In preparation for some gardening and yard improvements, we packed up the umbrella stroller and went on a little excursion to our local landscape and garden supply shop. Lillian seemed to enjoy looking at the bright colorful flowers, and got a huge smile whenever we pushed the stroller over the bumpy gravel areas.

Lillian looking at a flower while shopping at a local garden and landscape center.

Anyway, that about concludes the 6-month baby update — stay tuned for the next bloggy installment, which should involve all the flowery details about the transformation that’s taken place in our front yard over the past couple weeks!

The Wall Damage from a Whole-House Rewiring

Last week, I blogged about our finally-finished whole-house rewiring. While the most important thing was to avoid the possibility of an electrical fire due to dangerously outdated wiring that was shorting out in the walls and ceiling (more about that here), a secondary concern was how badly the inside of our house would get destroyed in the process of fixing it. After all, we had a young baby to think about… and if we had to move out of our house for a week or two while an electrician worked on the wiring, it was hard to figure out how we’d even manage.

Fortunately, while a few of the Chicago electricians we called foretold total doom for the interior our house, others promised minimal damage and a space that would remain livable throughout. And the one we ended up picking did a better job than we thought we could have hoped for — they kept everything neat and tidy, cleaning up as they went, and even patching and re-painting the walls afterward.

But we still had some pretty spectacular holes in our walls during the process, and in case anyone was wondering how bad walls might get ripped open during a whole-house rewiring, look no further than this post for some pictures. To start with: our bathroom ceiling, which seemed to hold the worst of the wiring problems, looked like this for a few days:

Massive hole in the bathroom ceiling.

This was actually the worst and biggest hole inflicted during the entire process. The rest of the house had smaller holes around the outlets and light switches — which is quite a lot of little holes when you think about it, but our guys did a really great job covering our furniture to protect it from dust, as well as cleaning up the wall debris by sweeping, vacuuming, and even mopping. If it wasn’t for the holes, you wouldn’t be able to tell anything was going on.

As an example, this is what it looked like around the outlets during the work:

One of the outlets in our bedroom during the rewiring.

And when they got to ripping up the ceiling fixtures — including the one in Lillian’s room — they covered the holes with tape and plastic to keep everything contained:

The hole in the nursery ceiling, covered with plastic.

All in all it was much less intrusive and messy than we might’ve feared, and as I write this, it really isn’t possible to tell that any of the holes pictured in this post were ever there. Which is really great, all things considered.

Anyway, there’s still more to be said about the whole-house rewiring project, including various light fixture upgrades and adding ventilation to the bathroom, but since Lillian just passed her six-month birthday and has her routine six-month well baby checkup scheduled for tomorrow, I think a baby-related post is due for the next bloggy update. Stay tuned!

Whole-House Rewiring: Finished at Last

After those major electrical problems surfaced, we started searching for an electrician to replace all of our ancient outdated wiring in one fell swoop. It took a week of comparison shopping and over two weeks of work, but I’m happy to finally report that the project is finished, the holes in the walls are repaired, and our entire house now has safe, modern wiring.

Right now, we are happily basking in the glow of our working light fixtures (pun intended), because for almost two weeks, this was the scene in our bathroom:

An image showing a dark bathroom, lit by only a battery-powered camping lantern.

The bathroom, lit by a camping lantern.

Shopping for an electrician was an interesting experience. The quotes we received varied wildly, from $1,900 on the low end all the way up to $10,000 at the highest, plus one guy who insisted he couldn’t give us an exact price until he ripped open our walls and measured exactly how many inches of wire he would have to add and/or remove. They also varied quite a bit on the amount of construction chaos they predicted. Some basically said, “we’re going to have to tear the walls down and you’ll need to move out while we work” while others promised smaller, more strategically-placed holes and a house that was livable at night.

The quote we ended up picking was for $2,800, and it actually came from the same contractor who refinished our floors. It turns out he’s a total jack-of-all-trades who works with a licensed electrician, and came with a glowing recommendation from some friends of ours who’d had him do similar work on their place. And even though the quote wasn’t quite the lowest, it included patching and re-painting the walls afterward — everyone else we called had a pretty clear “not my department” attitude toward that.

Granted, it still wasn’t cheap by any means, but it also wasn’t as bad as we’d originally feared. Plus, the timing was actually pretty fortunate: we had filed our tax returns good and early, and the electrical problems started right around the time our refund check arrived. So that eased the blow quite a bit.

Anyway, here’s a handy breakdown of everything that got done:

  • All new wiring everywhere in the house. No more random partial power outages, no more scary buzzing sounds in the walls, and peace of mind that our house won’t burn down while we sleep. Hooray!
  • Upgrade to a newer larger circuit box. The box that was there when we moved in only had 12 slots maximum, with 9 in use, although the vast majority of the lights and outlets were concentrated on just 2 of those for some reason. The new box has a maximum of 20, with everything much more sanely balanced across 13 of those, and some extras for if we ever want to add some real electric-powered rooms to the attic someday.

    An image showing two circuit boxes, one old and one new.

    The old circuit box (left) compared to the new circuit box (right).

  • All new outlets and light switches. When we moved in, almost every outlet in the house was of the two-prong variety, but they’ve all now been upgraded to the three-prong kind. It feels oddly luxurious to be able to plug our laptops straight into the walls without having to mess with adapters.

    An image showing a brand new modern electrical outlet.

    Shiny new 3-prong electrical outlet.

  • A new light fixture and fan for the bathroom ceiling. There was no ventilation in our bathroom when we moved in, and tons of moisture would build up when we took our showers. It was no coincidence that the electrical problems started in there — apparently the situation had gotten so bad that when they took apart the conduit, water actually dripped out of it. (Yikes!) It ended up costing extra for the fan, a vent for the fan, and the labor to install it all, but it’s made a dramatic reduction in the amount of fog in there every morning.
  • Some other light fixture upgrades. The fixture in our kitchen was so old that its wire was brittle and frayed, so we had no choice but to replace that one. We also took the opportunity to add a few other nice-to-have but not strictly necessary lighting upgrades. This included a ceiling fan for the living room, since summer is on the way and we have no central air conditioning, some lights for under the kitchen cabinets that add some much-needed visibility to whatever you’re trying to prepare on the counter, and a light for above the bathroom mirror to make up for the shadows that get cast on your face from just the one fixture on the ceiling.

    An image showing some new light fixtures in their original boxes.

    The stack of new light fixtures as seen before installation.

More details about the new fixtures, and the various holes that got knocked into our walls during all this, could fill an entire post — so I’ll aim for making another update in the next couple of days about that. In the meantime, have you ever heard of humidity in a bathroom causing problems with the wiring like that? I’d always assumed that the worst you had to worry about was mold or mildew building up, but live and learn I guess…